One of my 'things' is to have long, soulful talks with young girls.
When I was a youth leader- that was the main thing. I could discern things about their lives and help them see God's hand in their life. Eventually they'd laugh and warm up and begin to ask me really honest questions about their bodies, sex, love, rejection. I am really good at affirming them, calling out the best in them, and making them feel safe. We just talk girl-to- girl. I listen, understand, and take risks.
Just today I started a conversation with a girl I don't know that well - but by the end of the two hours, we were laughing and crying together. I just asked her questions - really heart-full questions. I was searching for her treasure with her - I truly wanted to know the answers, I was truly, deeply, interested.
It could feel her come alive as she answered and shared.
I would give ANYTHING for someone in the world to show this love to me.
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