Saturday, December 3, 2011

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Patrick Watson - Man Like You

Hey Rosetta - Welcome

It is fitting and delicious

 Affirmation
By Donald Hall




 To grow old is to lose everything.
Aging, everybody knows it.
Even when we are young,
we glimpse it sometimes, and nod our heads
when a grandfather dies.
Then we row for years on the midsummer
pond, ignorant and content. But a marriage,
that began without harm, scatters
into debris on the shore,
and a friend from school drops
cold on a rocky strand.
If a new love carries us
past middle age, our wife will die
at her strongest and most beautiful.
New women come and go. All go.
The pretty lover who announces
that she is temporary
is temporary. The bold woman,
middle-aged against our old age,
sinks under an anxiety she cannot withstand.
Another friend of decades estranges himself
in words that pollute thirty years.
Let us stifle under mud at the pond's edge
and affirm that it is fitting
and delicious to lose everything. 

Friday, July 15, 2011

Jealous for your love.

One of my 'things' is to have long, soulful talks with young girls.
When I was a youth leader- that was the main thing. I could discern things about their lives and help them see God's hand in their life. Eventually they'd laugh and warm up and begin to ask me really honest questions about their bodies, sex, love, rejection. I am really good at affirming them, calling out the best in them, and making them feel safe. We just talk girl-to- girl. I listen, understand, and take risks.
Just today I started a conversation with a girl I don't know that well - but by the end of the two hours, we were laughing and crying together. I just asked her questions - really heart-full questions. I was searching for her treasure with her - I truly wanted to know the answers, I was truly, deeply, interested.

It could feel her come alive as she answered and shared.

I would give ANYTHING for someone in the world to show this love to me.